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5 Sleep Training Myths Disproved by Pediatric Sleep Consultant

When it comes to sleep training, there’s no shortage of advice and opinions. Despite great evidence, many myths and misconceptions still surround sleep training, leaving parents confused or hesitant. As a certified pediatric sleep consultant, I’m here to put these myths to rest and explain the truth behind sleep training. By addressing these misconceptions, I hope to empower you with the right knowledge, alleviate your concerns & open your minds to start seeing sleep training as empowerment, not punishment.

Myth #1: Sleep Training Means Letting Your Baby “Cry-It-Out”

Perhaps the most recurring myth surrounding sleep training is that for majority of parents it equals letting your baby cry it out (CIO), which many parents have strong, negative feelings about.

While the CIO method is one approach and it may work for some, it’s FAR from the responsive approach I practice & advocate. It’s certainly not the only method known and used by pediatric sleep consultants.

TRUTH: There Are Many Methods, Some Of Which Allow Comforting Your Baby!

Sleep training is a broad term that refers to helping your child to sleep well.

There are numerous methods to choose from, depending on child’s temperament and parents’ parenting style. Methods like gradual sleep training, also known as the “fading” technique, involve slowly reducing your involvement in helping your baby fall asleep over time. There’s also the “pick-up, put-down” method, which allows you to soothe your baby while giving them the space to learn how to self-soothe.

Sleep training doesn’t have to be, and it shouldn’t one-size-fits-all approach. It’s about crafting a plan that matches your baby’s age & temperament, while teaching your baby how to fall asleep independently in a way that aligns with your values and comfort level.✨

Myth #2: Sleep Training Is Harmful to Babies

Some people believe that sleep training is harmful to a baby’s emotional or psychological wellness, suggesting that teaching a child to self-soothe means abandoning them to cope with stress alone.

I believe this misconceptions are based on a misunderstanding of both sleep training and infant development.

Truth: Sleep Training Encourages Independence & Contributes To Baby’s Health

Research indicates that babies who learn to self-soothe and sleep independently are not emotionally harmed. In fact, sleep training can help foster independence and confidence in your child by allowing them to develop healthy sleep habits. Babies who can sleep through the night without relying on external aids, like feeding or rocking, tend to be more well-rested, which is crucial for their physical, cognitive & emotional development.

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Myth #3: Sleep Training Should Start As Soon As Possible

Many new parents feel pressure to start sleep training their baby as early as possible, worried that delaying it could make the process more difficult later on. This leads some to believe that starting sleep training in the newborn stage is essential.

Truth: You cannot sleep train a newborn.

Establishing healthy sleep habits early on is important but I do not recommend formal sleep training until a baby is around 3 to 4 months old. This is because, in the early months, babies are still developing their circadian rhythms, sleep stages and need to eat frequently at night. Attempting something babies are developmentally ready for may lead to tears & unnecessarily drain both baby & parents.

Myth #4: Sleep training will ruin the attachment between baby & parents

Attachment is also mentioned a lot around sleep training. The way I see it is that something which has grown, has been nurtured since, basically, the moment you found out you were expecting, isn’t this fragile that a few nights of fussying will ruin it.

TRUTH: Responsive sleep training strengthens the bond & solidifies trust between parents and their baby

A securely attached child is confident his parents are there for him because they have been repeatedly and appropriately responsive to his cues since day 1. Moreover, the methods I teach allow parents to tend to and comfort their babies while teaching them independent sleep, which I think may only strengthen this special bond.

Myth #5: Once you start sleep training, you can’t stop

While consistency is key to sleep training success, there are situations where it is completely acceptable, if not advisable, to pause sleep training.

TRUTH: There are moments when it is necessary to stop sleep training.

For example, illness: If your baby is sick with a fever, cold, or other illness, it’s best to pause sleep training until they recover. What is important when your little one under the weather is comfort & love from parents. Even though I practice responsive sleep training, sickness is not the time to introduce changes.

CONCLUSION

Sleep training doesn’t have to be intimidating or overwhelming, and it certainly isn’t about leaving your baby alone to cry endlessly. By disproving these common myths, I hope you can begin to start seeing sleep training as empowerment, with confidence and realistic expectations. With the right methods tailored to your baby’s needs and a consistent approach, sleep training can help your baby develop healthy sleep habits, ensuring they get the rest they need for their growth and development.

Sleep training is a journey, not a quick fix. As a pediatric sleep consultant, I’m here to guide you through that process, find the best approach for your family while providing your baby with the tools they need for a lifetime of good sleep.

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Ensuring a baby gets the right amount of sleep is undoubtedly the most significant challenge parents face in the first 3 years of baby’s life. Trying to develop a schedule, bedtime routine, addressing night wakings or early morning wakings, short naps + sleep deprivation + the rest of life = SOLID OVERWHELM. The first few months can feel really challenging for parents, especially first-timers. I had parents ask me all the time “why is nobody talking about this???”. As a pediatric sleep coach, I have worked with numerous families to help them navigate the complexities of baby sleep and beyond that. How to set up a great sleep hygiene so you can avoid the stress & tears later on? In this blog, I want to share my baby sleep training tips to offer guidance & set clear path forward.

The Importance of Sleep for Healthy Development

Sleep impacts every aspect of children’s growth, from cognitive and physical development to emotional well-being: it is not just a period of rest. Adequate sleep helps strengthen the immune system, enhance memory, support learning, and improve behavior. Conversely, lack of sleep can lead to a range of problems, including irritability, hyperactivity, and developmental delays.

Understanding the holistic importance of sleep is the first step in developing proper sleep hygiene. When we look at sleep from a holistic perspective, we consider how it integrates with other aspects of a child’s life, including nutrition, physical activity, and emotional health. Ensuring your child gets the right amount of sleep can set the stage for a lifetime of healthy habits. Let’s explore my 7 baby sleep training tips!

BABY SLEEP TRAINING TIPS

#1: Creating a Sleep-Inducing Environment

The environment in which your child sleeps plays a significant role in how well they sleep. Here are some tips for creating a sleep-friendly space:

✨ Darkness: Ensure the room is dark enough & by that I mean 100% pitch black. Even the slightest amount of light suppresses melatonin production. Consider using blackout curtains to block out light, which can interfere with sleep.

✨ Quiet: Minimize noise in your child’s sleep environment. White noise machines are great in blocking out the outside noise and help babies to stay asleep.

✨ Safety: Make sure your baby’s crib meets safe sleep standards: nothing in the crib, flat, firm mattress, no blankets or pillows. If you have a toddler who sleeps in toddler bed: if there is none, put up the railing to prevent falling out, make sure to remove the clutter out of the way, ensure all furniture is properly mounted, put safety locks on the outlets, windows, remove/hang up the cords from blinds, install the gate at the stairway

✨Cool Temperature: A slightly cooler room temperature is conducive to sleep. Aim for a range between 68-72°F (19-22°C).

#2: Establish a Consistent Bedtime Routine

From the day you come home. Children thrive on routine and predictability. Establishing a consistent bedtime routine is one of the most effective strategies for successful baby sleep training. A predictable routine helps signal to your child that it is time to wind down and prepare for sleep. In turn, it invites structure which is key for rebellious toddlers:) Here’s a suggested bedtime routine:

🌙 Bath Time: It is not technically a part of bedtime routine but it is a good start to help your child unwind. A warm bath can be soothing and helps lower body temperature, signaling to the brain that it is time to sleep.

⭐ Dim the Lights: Lowering the lights can help stimulate the production of melatonin, the hormone responsible for sleep.

🌙 Quiet Activities: Engage in calming activities such as reading a book, singing lullabies, or gentle rocking.

⭐ Put your baby down in their sleep space drowsy but awake. (What does it mean? CLICK HERE💡)

🌙 Consistency: Try to stick to the same routine every night, even on weekends. This consistency helps regulate your child’s internal clock and promotes better sleep.

#3: Recognizing Sleep Cues

Understanding and recognizing your child’s sleep cues can make a significant difference in their sleep patterns. Sleep cues like rubbing eyes, yawning, are signs a baby uses to communicate they are ready for sleep. Therefore, responding to these cues promptly can help prevent over-tiredness, which can make it harder for your child to settle down and fall asleep. All about sleep cues: CLICK HERE 💡.

#4: The Role of Naps in Baby Sleep Training

Not only are naps are essential for young children, but they also need to be well-timed and appropriately spaced. This is where wake windows come in. Obviously, infants may need several naps throughout the day while toddlers typically need one or two – everything depends on their total sleep requirement. Hence, nap schedule should be created based on child’s age and total sleep requirement. Napping too late in the day can interfere with bedtime. Therefore, keep in mind your baby’s wake window when you plan the last nap. Just like bedtime, having a consistent nap routine helps your child know it is time to rest.

#5: Encourage Daytime Physical Activity

Natural light plays an important role in setting the rhythm of our internal clocks. According to the National Sleep Foundation, “sunlight helps regulate our sleeping patterns.” Physical activity during the day can promote better sleep at night. Encourage your child to play, run, and explore. However, avoid vigorous activities close to bedtime, as they can be too stimulating.

#6. Addressing Sleep Regressions

Sleep regressions are common and can be challenging for parents! They often occur around developmental milestones or changes in routine. During a regression, your child might wake more frequently or resist sleep. Patience and consistency with your established sleep routine are key. Regressions are typically temporary, and maintaining a stable routine will help your child return to better sleep patterns.

#7. Holistic Approach to Baby Sleep Training

What really is sleep training? It is a process of helping a baby learn to sleep well. It is that simple.

In my holistic approach to pediatric sleep training, I integrate a comprehensive understanding of child’s development, their temperament, nutrition, family dynamics to establish a well-grounded foundation for healthy sleep habits that will serve the baby far beyond infancy & toddlerhood. I prioritize gentle, intermediate & responsive methods that acknowledge the unique temperament of each child while considering parents’ values and goals.

#8. Seeking Professional Help from a Pediatric Sleep Coach

If you’ve tried various strategies and your child is still struggling with sleep, it might be time to seek professional help. This is why I am here!

With empathy & expertise, I pour my heart into helping exhausted parents teach their babies healthy sleep habits. I offer online & at-home sleep training solutions for babies and toddlers, using methods that allow parents to be appropriately responsive during the process. I infuse my plans with love & consideration while surrounding families with genuine support.

⭐ Explore my sleep support options here: CLICK HERE.

Baby Sleep Training Tips & Life

Parenthood is a journey filled with learning and adaptation. I hope my general baby sleep training tips will give you an idea on how to lay foundation for healthy sleep hygiene. Baby & toddler sleep training can be challenging, but the rewards of a well-rested child and peaceful nights are well worth the effort.

Think about it – thriving & happy baby, feeling rested, a date night, girls night out, and above all, balance & harmony. I think a few nights of fussing and discomfort are well worth it.

Remember, each child is unique, and what works for one may not work for another. Patience, persistence, and sometimes professional guidance can make all the difference in achieving restful nights for your child and you.

For personalized guidance & support: LEARN MORE. I am SO looking forward to meeting your family!

To the balance your family deserves,

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Sleep Training Myths Disproved by Pediatric Sleep Consultant